For Beckett--8 is GREAT!

Beckett is 8 months... and due for an update. So far, (I hope I don't jinx myself) we have nothing bad to report about this little guy. He is just a light, and we love him to pieces! I think a perfect adjective for him is IRRESISTIBLE! 

Our little Santa Baby made Christmas so much fun. He was the perfect age for "Baby's 1st Christmas", and loved all his new toys... and the wrapping paper. 

What a fun month it was, with the holidays, and Beckett learning lots of fun tricks....

• waving
• babbling more and more
• smiling when he sees the camera
• clapping
• lots of tongue tricks
• getting yourself ALL OVER... we often have to find you... under the desk, in the corner, kitchen, etc.
• loving attention from your brothers... and they love you too... as long as you don't get too close to their things. :)

2000 + NINE

Our NEW YEARS EVE was spent at the church with the youth. I swear when I was 12-18 I cared more about the activities planned for me, and less about the socializing in the hall. Maybe not? :) At 10 we headed home. At 11 we watched the  ball drop in NYC and made some loud noises. I have to admit it is not one of my favorite holidays with young, tired, crabby kids {maybe that will change as they get older?}. Cooper was DEVASTATED that our "toast" was a drink and not bread. Gunner enjoyed the high-sugar-carbonated-beverage, and despite being exhausted, his "toasts" were sweet enough to buy him a few more minutes of cuddle time. 

NEW YEARS DAY we went downtown Kansas City to UNION STATION with the Bells. We had fun at the amazing SCIENCE CENTER. The boys loved the science golf, tree house, dinosaur bone digging, instruments, games, animals, slides, bubble machines and more! We also got to go in the PLANETARIUM and watch a "Peter and the Wolf" laser light show. They had a huge, really neat, MODEL TRAIN DISPLAY in the grand lobby of Union Station. The boys especially loved seeing the Polar Express train, and the lego replica of the Kansas City skyline. Great entertainment while we waited to eat at the famous Harvey's Diner {tasty, but had tasteless service}. 

I am finally getting caught up on my blog, and ready {or not so ready} to face the NEW YEAR. It has been so invigorating... and intimidating... and inspiring.... to read about each of your goals and resolutions for the coming year.

I face this year:

• DETERMINED to continue losing my baby weight from #3, since I will undoubtedly (or should I say hopefully?), be pregnant again before the end of the year. I can't deny myself the feeling that Heavenly Father blessed me with such and amazing baby {Beckett}, because he wants me to have another one. [btw, I'm amazed that so many of you avoided mentioning weight-loss goals... I swear it is not all in vanity... but also for healthy reasons. :)]
• GRATEFUL for the many friends we have met here in Missouri. I hope to get to know each of them better this year, and can accomplish this the best through lots of SERVICE. Or, as my husband would call it, "getting over myself". It really makes you feel contentment when you spend more time looking outside yourself. 
• INSPIRED by my little brother, ELDER spike GATTEN. I hope I can share my beliefs more freely, and help those young men, in white shirts, with name-tags, a little more.
• HUMBLED by the pain and suffering of my close friends and family. May I increase my strength (through growing my spirit), so that I am better able to lift some of their burdens. {hope many of you are ready to caravan to the temple}

{ H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y G U N N E R }

On December 29 (yes, 4 short days after Christmas, and NOT my pick of a delivery month), our "budda-bud" turned "FREE" {3}. I, like I'm sure a lot of you moms out there, wonder where the time has gone... How could our sweet little baby have changed so quickly?

Summing up Gunner at {3}:

• Willingly take the back-seat while playing with Cooper. You elect to be player 2, Robin to Batman, Shadow to Sonic, Luigie to Mario... maybe you've realized it's not worth the fight?
• Still do an amazing job playing on your own. You love pretending for hours, organizing, and setting things up.
• You cry just long enough to get the spot on your teacher's lap in Sunbeams.
• Everything is about being your "best-friend". You openly announce who is your best friend at any given moment, and use it as a threat too. "You're not my best friend anymore Mom!"
• You still like to pretend to be a puppy dog.
• You don't like to be "hot" or "fweezing". 
• We still get to hear your daily fit... which you thankfully take in your room... and which ends as if we turned a switch.
• You won't slow down long enough to eat a meal, but want bites of anything anyone else is eating.
• You are in the fun "watch me" stage, and do all you can to be "super cool". 
• You LOVE your brother Cooper... through blood, sweat and tears.
• You pick your nose until it bleeds... especially in bed... and have had enough bloody noses that every time  you have snot, you run to us yelling, "blood is coming out of my nose!"
• Still don't like to be sticky.
• You potty-trained in October.
• Won't pee or play without the light on, but want to sleep in the pitch black with the door closed.

NICKNAMES: Bud, Budda-bud, Gunner Funner Face, Buzz

FAVORITE TOYS: "guys" (mini super-heros), Indiana Jones whip & sword, tech deck dudes, cars, kids meal toys, light sabers, blocks, legos, imaginext batcave, electronic guitar

FAVORITE FOODS: cocoa puffs, chocolate milk, chicken nuggets, french fries, macaroni and cheese, chicken noodle soup, eggs, salad w/ ranch, string cheese

FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: Wii Sports, Guitar Hero, Mario Party 8, Mario Kart, Leapster Sonic, DS golf

FAVORITE TV SHOWS: Scooby Doo, Maggie and the Ferocious Beast, Little Einsteins

FAVORITE MOVIES: Ice Age, Cars, Letter Factory, Tom & Jerry, Spidermans, Kung Fu Panda

LOVES: any book we will read to him, playing football in the basement with Dad and Cooper, riding your scooter, riding in the wagon, playing the Wii (especially Wii Sports and Guitar Hero), golfing, bowling, wrestling with Dad and Cooper, saying prayers, taking a few toys to bed each night, coloring, playdough, "writing", treasure hunts, pretending.

On your actual birthday, Dad had the day off. We tried to go to the indoor playground, but it was closed, so we went to Wendy's. We had cupcakes (which you sprinkled), and opened most of your family presents. You LOVED the batman add-ons to your bat cave. Cooper got you your LONG-AWAITED Tech Deck Dude Vanformer. Beckett got you an Indiana Jones Potato Head that you'd been asking for, for your birthday, all year long! Thanks to all those who sent presents and called Gunner. He really felt special that day! 

That weekend, we had a "friends and families" party cosmic bowling (bowling with black, strobe and disco lights) at the alley on-base. It was SO MUCH FUN! Here was the invitation:
The cake that mom made. About half way through, I wondered why I get myself into this... but he LOVED it! Seeing it revealed the surprise that we were going bowling for his party.

The party was a hit. It was crazy at times with 4 lanes, and 24 bowlers, but Gunner had so much fun (which is what really matters!). He got a real bowling pin, and everyone who was there signed it. He carried it around and treasured it all night. He is also pictured here fulfilling the Gatten tradition of taking a bite out of the un-cut cake. I love how Cooper is right in on everything. It was hard for him to have everything be about Gunner!

Here are all the friends who came. We had SO much fun, and they were all so nice to bring Gunner presents. He got money, walkie talkies, Whac-A-Mole, Spiderman bath toys, and Indiana Jones sword, books, and a nerf gun. We gave him a jump-track for his Tech Deck Dudes, and some more Dudes. For those who don't know, they are little skateboarders who magnet to their boards. Not pictured below are the Woodruffs too.

For party favors we did glow bracelets, which turned into light sabers for the boys. They LOVED them. And, neon bouncy balls.

Gunner, we LOVE you so much. You definitely add some adventure to our family, and we don't know what we would do without you! 

Happy Birthday Mom & Nana!

Paying tribute to the most amazing Mom and Nana on her birthday. We love you so much... and feel your love for us. We love visiting your house in Dalton, but especially love when you come and visit us, and we get one-on-one time with you! Some of our recent favorites:

• Love that you will "let loose" with your kids! Had so much fun with you in Vegas for "Girls Week"!

• Loved having you in St. Louis for the birth of our 3rd baby boy, Beckett. You have always been so loving and helpful during your baby visits each time, but I loved have you there to comfort me, and share in this experience with me. I HATE this picture of me, but love it of you, and how it shows your love and concern for me!

• Cooper LOVES his Nana! He loves that you will play baseball with him. He loves Nana Sandwiches! :)

• Gunner loved the time we had to play before Beckett came. He loved the zoo, and bowling at America's Incredible Pizza Co. You are so sweet to make sure each of your grandchildren feel special and loved.

• How neat that Beckett will always know you were there to welcome him in to this world! Love that he was named after your Dad, Leo, and hope he can learn all the amazing qualities you learned from him as well!

Happy Birthday! Wish we were there to help celebrate with you, and can't wait to see you again!

** CHRISTMAS 2008 **

What a MAGICAL Christmas we had! I hope it was as enjoyable for all of you. Thank you for all of your Christmas cards. I LOVE this time of year! 

We missed all of our extended family... terribly... but, I have to admit it was so nice to have relaxed Christmas as our own little family! Here is a little recap...

Christmas Eve we had a fun evening with our friends, the Bells. They had both sets of grandparents in town, and my boys quickly adopted them. :) We had a yummy ham dinner and played a white elephant game that the boys had a lot of fun with. We opened our PJ's. I wanted to have the boys all match, but Cooper insisted on getting footed jammies (he's been sad since he's outgrown all of his)... and, of course (despite a hint of naughtiness), his wish was granted.

This is our adopted Grandma, Conni Burke, Jaime Bell's mom. She has been living with the Bells since we moved here, to help with Emberlyn (their special needs daughter), and Jaime's pregnancy. She is SO sweet to the boys, and they LOVE the attention. It will be so hard when she moves back home to Arizona this summer! Here are some pics of her playing with Beckett and Emberlyn.

Our friends the Bells: Clifton, Jaime, Zander & Emberlyn. Jaime is due April 1 with another baby girl!

After a fun evening at the Bells, we headed home to put out cookies for Santa, deliver our last "secret elves" gift, and have a little Christmas devotional. We had to get to bed so Santa could get to work! I have to say that being parents on Christmas is the BEST! We were so excited, ourselves, to see what Santa brought for our boys! Here are all the boys' stockings and Santa gifts. 

Christmas morning, Andrew was the first to wake up... and then wake me up... waiting for the boys. Just after 7, we heard Cooper snooping around. He came into our room and said, "Guys, come check this out!"

Here is Beckett with his new "airport". The older boys were sure to show him how to use it! Other presents for Beck included a wooden truck, Peter Pan, a shape sorter, balls/hammer ramp, rock n' roll ball, and drum. He must have been the "nicest", cause he was the most spoiled! :) It was so fun to have a "baby's first Christmas" at a fun age like this! From his brothers, he got a new baseball tee (we now have 3 different infant versions). His FAVORITE was his play MIRROR. He is fascinated with himself!

Cooper and Gunner were SO EXCITED that Santa brought them their BATCAVE! (with a letter reminding them to share!). :) They played with it for HOURS! And Beckett has even taking a liking to it! He is getting quick at crawling, and they have to move away with their toys so they don't get spit on them. Each got a board-game, puzzle, craft, preschool workbook, books, and nerf guns too. We let the boys shop for each other, and mom and dad, and it was so fun to see them get excited about giving their presents (Gunner gave Cooper power ranger transformers, and Cooper gave Gunner some super hero "guys"). They know each other the best! 

I got a super fun outdoor, above-ground fire pit that we've already tried out! My boys were all very thoughtful, and it was super fun for them to all go shopping together for me. They are very good at keeping secrets!

Mom and Dad stayed in our jammies ALL DAY, and the boys loved their new sweatsuits. We had sticky buns for breakfast, and white lightening chicken chili for dinner. It was a relaxing, perfect day... making our way from one new toy to another.

Here is Andrew and Coop rockin' out to Guitar Hero World Tour (Andrew's present). We also got Outdoor Challenge for the Wii from Uncle AJ. Our parents were, as always, WAY too generous, and we LOVED our handmade advent calendar and plate kit from the Waites. My Grandpa Lee and Grandma Helen even mailed us our candy bars, gum and money, which made me miss home a tiny bit less. 

Another great Christmas gift was that it was the first day of a FREE WEEK OFF WORK for Andrew!!!! He didn't have to take any "leave" days, and was off from Dec. 24-Jan. 2! We had so much fun hanging out with Dad!

Christmases Past

I have a friend, Cyndee, who decorates her mantel each year with Santa pictures throughout the years... just in those L-shaped plastic stand-up frames (her reason was how the nestled together for easy storage!). She did this because her mom did this too (and even made you "sit" on Santa's lap no matter your age, so she could see the family dynamics change). She said her mom's eventually filled the mantel and extended across the window sills in the living room. I'd really like to do this! Then, this year, I saw my friend Kendra post pictures from past Christmases. I love the idea of capturing your family each year and making the comparisons. I decided to do this post on Christmases past (more because then my blog book will have a few shots from the "pre-blogging" Christmases. So here they are:

• 2003 (no need to start pre-kids, right? Actually, just too lazy to scan them in.) Cooper was 5 weeks old. We traveled from Cleveland, where Andrew was in his first year of dental school, to visit our families in Spokane and Coeur d'Alene. We attended the Gatten Family Reunion in Hope, ID, and also had Cooper's baby blessing. He was the best present either of us had ever received! 

• 2004 Cooper was 13 months old. This picture was actually taken at the TV station, where Dad was signing his papers to join the Air Force. He received a scholarship to pay for his last 2 years of dental school. We once again traveled to visit our families this Christmas. I love the 4-generation picture with Nana and Great-Grandpa Lee. Also pictured, your Grandpa and Grandma Larson. Christmas morning at the Larsons. Your favorite present, your slinky. 

• 2005 Cooper was 2, and I was bursting at the belly with Gunner, who was born 12/29/05. We stayed in Cleveland, missing out on the Gatten Family Reunion, but loved having Christmas at our own home, and starting some of our own traditions. We bought our tree at a garage sale. Loved going to Lake Farmpark and building a toy in Santa's workshop. Had Christmas Eve dinner at the Bentley's, and had them over on Christmas Day. Cooper's favorite presents were his train set, and his life-sized Elmo. 
  

• 2006 Visited Lake Farmpark again with our dental school friends in Cleveland. We sure love these guys (Bentleys, Lees, Munds). Cooper was 3, Gunner almost 1. We did make it to visit our families in Spokane and Coeur d'Alene, enjoying Christmas Eve at the Gattens, and Christmas Day at the Larsons. 

• 2007 We were living in St. Louis, where dad was in his AEGD residency at Scott Air Force Base. We sat on Santa's lap at the USO Christmas Party, and the Breakfast with Santa at the farm. Cooper was 4, Gunner almost 2. Visited family in Spokane/Coeur d'Alene. Attended the Gatten Family Reunion in Hope, ID, where Cooper skied for the first time. Had Christmas Eve/Morning in the condo. Favorite presents: light sabers! 

• 2008 Living at Whiteman Air Force Base near Kansas City. Stayed here for Christmas. Missed our families, but loved having our own traditions and staying in our pajamas all day! Sat on Santa's lap LOTS of places. Favorite present: Batcave from Santa. Beckett's first Christmas at 7 months old. He LOVED the wrapping paper! Cooper 5, Gunner almost 3.  

MERRY CHRISTMAS 2008

Cassie

had baby #3 •

3K, 5K, training together for •

a half marathon in march 

dark hair & twilight •

dental wives conference •

gatten girls week • 

& rachel in las vegas 

primary secretary… now • 

course 14 sunday school

photography & blogging •

kept boys busy in bathroom • 

during tornado warnings

goodbye president hinckley •

Andrew

base volleyball & softball •

advanced education in • 

general dentistry residency 

scott air force base (st. louis)

now general dentist •

whiteman afb (kansas city)

hinman meeting atlanta • 

(during tornado)

lonestar for 8th anniversary •

neil diamond for birthday •

watched gas prices fall •

byu football & sports center •

wrestling boys & running •

treasure hunts, batting • 

practice, football, wii &

obstacle courses with boys

Cooper
5 years old •
birthday @ great wolf •
lodge indoor waterpark
loves preschool •
wii (lego games favorite) •
beat guitar hero on “easy” •
monopoly junior & blink •
nintendo ds and leapster •
skiing for first time with •
cousins, made it all day
shirts with “something •
cool” on front
everything is “interesting” •
rollercoaster lover •
outgoing & talkative •
batting cages •
no more training wheels! •
learning to read •
superheros & “real” movies •
wrestling dad and brothers •
takes care of Beckett •
eggs, broccoli, sonic •
green & “now brown too” •
loved st. louis arch •
november “cute kid of the •
month” in base magazine
basketball on teams •
fishing •
makes friends easily •
learned to swim! •
ran an entire 2-mile run •

Gunner

3 years old (this month) •
wii sports •
potty trained! •
made it through terrible twos •
at least we hope they ended
coloring & playdough •
library storytime •
light sabers, guns, swords •
misses cooper •
bowling & golf •
all other balls, balls, balls •
indiana jones hat all summer! •
indiana jones for halloween •
chocolate milk & cereal •
plays it safe •
says prayers & loves nursery •
doesn’t like being “sticky” •
but also a nose picker
board games •
“guys” •
(superheros, star wars
& tech deck dudes)
plays air guitar •
misses cousins •
(along with the rest of us!)
scooter & wagon •

Beckett
7 months old •
born may 13, 2008 •
6 days late! •
8 pounds 20 inches •
loves big brothers •
best baby ever! •
great sleeper •
almost crawling… •
high fives •
indian sound & strums lips •
loves to eat solids •
smiles for the camera •
friendly & flirty •
binky baby & thumb •
a.k.a. Bubzy/Beckers •

our family
visits from bentleys, all •
grandparents, hirschis, griggs,
dan & riley, & tanner
st. louis earthquake •
to boise for brock reunion •
& kloe memorial
larson reunion in mccall •
gatten cousins camp, •
elephant ear booth,
swimming & silverwood, cd’a
LOTS of mlb games •

[ C H R I S T M A S T I M E ]

We have thoroughly enjoyed this Christmas season, and hope each of you have as well. 

Our preparations began Sunday after Thanksgiving as we put up our tree. When we were married, Andrew's mom gave us a bucket of his ornaments she had collected for him each year of his life. It is so neat to have them, and it has been fun to add to them each year with different ornaments that mean something to us: one for the family, and one for each boy. The boys love pulling them out and remembering where we got them, or where we were living at the time, or what they mean. My plan is to give them to them when they get married, but I am not sure I will be able to part with some of them! This year the family got one from Nauvoo and Carthage, Gunner got Indiana Jones, Cooper got this cute stocking, and Beckett's will be "baby's first christmas".

COUNTING DOWN 

• Long before our kids were old enough to care, I made an advent book with my sister-in-laws. Each day has a scripture, religious Christmas song/hymn, and a story. This year, we have been doing this at our family scripture/prayer time each night, and the boys look forward to it!
• At this time, they also get their chocolate out of their chocolate advent calendar. These have been a tradition since Cooper was 1. 
• At preschool Cooper made an advent tree. He puts a "P" each day when he says a prayer for someone else, and an "X" each day when he does an extra service for someone. He just loves these kinds of things, and it is cute to see him coming up with ways to serve.
• Andrew's amazing sister, Artie, who has hand-made each of the boys' stockings, and our tree skirt, sent us this amazing hand-made advent calendar for Christmas this year. They boys are thrilled to have another way to countdown!

DOWNTOWN READ-AROUND

Cooper's preschool did a really cute field trip earlier this month. We started off at the train depot downtown, where they read "Polar Express" and got a bell to wear throughout the rest of the trip. They separated into groups and got clipboards with pictures of different Christmas items they had to find in a scavenger hunt around town. They were SO into this... it was cute. We then walked to an insurance company (looking for signs of Christmas along the way in store windows and such). At the insurance company they read another story and got cookies, juice and a candy cane off their tree. Then they sang them a few songs as we left. We walked to the courthouse, where they made little candy canes out of pipe cleaners and beads and read a book about a candy cane upside down being a "J" for Jesus. They then caroled for the workers there, and we headed to our final stop, Java Junction, where they got hot chocolate and caroled to the patrons. It was a lot of fun.

WHITEMAN AIR FORCE BASE TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY

One nice perk about the Air Force, and living on-base, is all the fun, free, things to do. This was one of them. They had tree-lighting ceremony, and then cookies, cocoa, a live band, bingo for prizes, crafts, and, of course, Santa. But, not just the normal santa trip, they got REAL toys! Cooper came straight from basketball practice.... which he is loving.

MEDICAL GROUP BREAKFAST WITH SANTA

The med-group had a nice "santa cafe" breakfast, where the kids got to order. They got chocolate chip pancakes, bacon, juice, and cocoa. Beckett liked the marshmallows. Then they got to sit on Santa and get presents. Cooper opened his wooden puzzle and said, "No! This is not cool mom! Go up there and tell him I want something else!" Needless to say, we had a talk about being thankful for presents, and gracious... but, really, how do you teach that to a 5-year-old?

WARD CHRISTMAS PARTY

This was a little stressful, as I got the random assignment to be in charge of a living nativity as people walked it. It turned out surprisingly well, and we had a few families take shifts (Andrew was just thrilled we didn't have to take a shift ourselves). There was music playing, and we got a lot of compliments. It proved to be a challenge also, because we are not allowed to have hay inside a church for fire reasons... 

Anyway, they had different people decorate the tables in different themes... we, of course, had to sit at the "BYU" themed table. :) There were LONG lines, too many people, a nice program, and santa. Is there really a good way to make a party for that many people enjoyable for a family with 3 kids under 5? The kids had fun... I mean for the parents?

CANDY CANE HUNT

The boys had a blast searching for candy canes at the Warrensburg Community Center. What a fun idea. They also did crafts, made reindeer food, and had hot chocolate and cookies.

COOPER'S PRESCHOOL PARTY

I continued to be amazed at Cooper's preschool. They put on quite the little party! Each kid went and sat on Santa's lap to tell him what they wanted for Christmas... so cute to hear what each kid said. They also got "prayer pillows" from their teachers, and little stockings.
Earlier this week, Cooper brought home this from "journal time". They take a few kids at a time to the table and have them draw in their journal. Then they write what they say as they are drawing. I just love it, cause you really get to understand what is going through your little one's head. Most of the time they are free drawing; this specific day they had asked them to draw the nativity. Here is what Cooper came up with...

SECRET ELVES... THE 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS

Since we are staying here for Christmas (not traveling to be with family), we decided to do a few more things to make it a "Christ-centered Christmas" for our kids. We bought a present for the angel-tree at church, made cookies and went caroling with our friends, the Bells. But, we also have been doing the 12-days of Christmas for our neighbors. This was a tradition in my (the Gatten) family while I was growing up, and I have such fond memories of coming up with poems, dressing up to be warm and unrecognizable, leaving presents, knocking and running away... we always did it for needy families, and my parents were always so generous with the things they gave. We wanted to do something similar... so we decided we would do it for our neighbors. They are not "poor", but her husband has been gone for months at trainings and such, and they just moved here this summer, and we knew their little girls would get excited about it. Each night, Cooper dresses up in his pull-over snow mask and tiptoes across our driveway to their side door... knocks... runs into our backyard and down our back steps into our basement. Gunner and I look out our dark kitchen window and watch them open the door with excitement and get the surprises. It has been SO fun, and our boys are talking about it all the time. It has been so fun to see them get so excited about GIVING each night. Some of the things we've given... fruit, donuts, ornaments, candy, chocolate dipped pretzel sticks, sprite (may your days be merry and "sprite"), christmas stories, a CD of christmas songs for kids, etc. We attach a little poem each night, which I have if anyone would like a copy.